Sunday, December 31, 2006

Blue Moon Wishes

At the end of the day faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don't really expect it. It's like one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. And it's not so important happy ever after, just that its happy right now. See once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you , and once in a while people may even take your breath away.


Grey's Anatomy "Save Me" Season 1, Episode 8, Aired on 2005.05.15

For more check out:
http://www.televisionwithoutpity.com/articles/content/a12369/index-12.html
http://thinkexist.com/quotes/meredith_grey/

Or, of course, you could always visit the official ABC site

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

IDKE.8 – Going it Solo

I can’t remember which of the two hosts, Tamale or Johnny T, was first to point it out, and I definitely don’t know how much of this specific introduction (or really any of them all night long) was pre-planned and scripted, but I was struck when the introduction to Heywood Wakefield called attention to him as a solo performer.

More specifically, the introduction highlighted how unusual it was in the contemporary moment that Heywood remained steadfast in his performance as a solo artist. It also seemed to me a call to Heywood (and implicitly, to other solo performers) to go the way of collaborating with others in group performances.

It’s true, especially in the last several years of IDKE showcases and Great Big shows, there are not many performers who take the stage solo. (Hmm…when I get the chance I’ll have to try and track this to see what kind of trend unfolds.) Never having been part of a host city committee charged with selecting who does and does not get into the IDKE showcase, I couldn’t say for sure what makes an application more or less attractive, and ultimately successful in being selected. I have my guesses that in the spirit of maximizing the amount of performers who get to participate in the showcase, there may be a preference for group acts.

Overall, I’d have to say that group acts have an added dimension that solo performances don’t. Yes, good choreography is good choreography, but good group choreography can amaze regardless of the level of talent of any one individual performer, whereas solo acts rely on the individual to be amazing. I also appreciate the way group acts embody and enact community on stage. Still, I’d never want it to be the case that there was a prohibition against solo performances.

One of the reasons that I was so surprised by the hosts’ introduction to Heywood Wakefield was that it was one of the few times I’ve heard the topic of solo performances vs. group numbers explicitly raised, and certainly the first time I’d heard it addressed during the course of a show (which was great because of how many people were there to hear it, but also perhaps not as conducive a venue for dialogue and discussion as a workshop during IDKE’s conference—maybe a possible topic for Vancouver?).

What interested me even more was that Heywood was not the only solo act of the showcase. Earlier in the evening, in the second act of the night, Charleston Chu also took the stage in a solo performance. While there are certainly similarities in that they each took the stage solo, it is the distinctions of their solo performances that captivate my attention most. In particular, I’m interested in the differential significances of their solo performances entailed by the particular racialized sexualities they portray on stage.

In other words, my mind’s been wrapped up in thinking about how Charleston’s solo performance on stage as a flamboyant, effeminate Asian king means something distinct to me than Heywood’s middle-age (heterosexual?) white man lounge act.

But more on those thoughts later, for now I have to run and get to work!

Monday, December 11, 2006

Humor, Offense, and Being PC

I've realized this semester that my Introduction to LGBT Students are hyper-aware of being "politically correct." What that means to them seems to be not offending anyone.

I'm really curious as to where they feel this pressure to be PC coming from? Especially because they so often make it clear that they are only saying what they're saying because they think it won't offend--which to me seems like even more of an offense!

But speaking of being PC and being offensive, I have to say that while I hate it when people are PC only for PCs sake, I also hate it when folks think that their humorous intentions are the end-all, be-all of discussions when others find their humor offensive.

Now, let me be clear that I don't want to ban humor that might be construed by some as offensive--because you never know what will be offensive to people, but more importantly because that would be a limiting of our freedoms of expression. Still, I also find it unsatisfying that when faced with the charge of having offended others, someone would just chalk it up to comedy and not engage/discuss the matter further.

Nothing seems to get solved when we don't have open, honest, communication. I know, I know...easier said than done. But, wouldn't it be nice?

(These thoughts in response to the news that "Asian Leaders Angered by Rosie O'Donnell's 'Ching Chong' Comments")


http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,235842,00.html

Asian Leaders Angered by Rosie O'Donnell's 'Ching Chong' Comments

Monday, December 11, 2006

By Sara Bonisteel

NEW YORK — Note to Rosie O'Donnell: Stick to singsong.

"The View" co-host is in hot water for using the expression "ching chong" to describe Chinese people talking about Danny DeVito's drunken appearance on her show.

"The fact is that it's news all over the world. That you know, you can imagine in China it's like: 'Ching chong … ching chong. Danny DeVito, ching chong, chong, chong, chong. Drunk. 'The View.' Ching chong," O'Donnell said on a Dec. 5 episode of "The View."

The statement didn't sit well with John C. Liu, a New York City councilman, who fired off a letter to "View" co-host Barbara Walters.

"The 'ching-chong' bit is not a trivial matter," Liu told FOXNews.com. "It really hits a raw nerve for many people in the community — many like myself, who grew up with these kinds of taunts. We all know that it never ends at the taunts."

Liu isn't the only one offended.

The Asian American Journalists Association called O'Donnell's comments a "mockery" that gives "the impression that [Asian Americans] are a group that is substandard to English-speaking people."

Liu said his office has received complaints from around the New York area following the appearance. He directed his letter to Walters instead of O'Donnell because as producer of the show, he said, she ought to know better.

"It's just stupidity, and it's stupidity that justifies a response," Liu said of O'Donnell's behavior, adding the comments came "from someone who has been indignant herself when it comes to comments made by other people where she has perceived it as being negative against a particular community."

In November, O'Donnell made up with Kelly Ripa, co-host of "Live With Regis and Kelly," after accusing her of homophobia for pushing Clay Aiken's hand away from her mouth on the program.

O'Donnell remains unfazed.

"She's a comedian in addition to being a talk show co-host," Cindi Berger, O'Donnell's spokeswoman, said in a statement. "I certainly hope that one day they will be able to grasp her humor."

On Dec. 8, O'Donnell wrote in her blog "it was not my intent to mock." She clarified her position on Dec. 10, calling the bit "comedy."

"I do many accents and probably will continue to," she wrote. "My mom in law impression offends some southerners. What can u do? I come in peace."

O'Donnell is not the first comedian to raise the ire of the Asian-American community.

In 2001, Sarah Silverman told a joke on "Late Night With Conan O'Brien" that had the punch line "I love Chinks."

The NBC program issued an apology to Guy Aoki, the president of the Media Action Network for Asian Americans, following Silverman's appearance.

Liu is still waiting for an apology for O'Donnell's comments.

"I think an acknowledgement that it was a mistake would be very much appreciated by the community," he said.

Being Creative Brings Us Closer to God

In yesterday's homily, the priest spoke about connections to God. In part, the message was about listening for/being aware of God in our lives, and preparing the way for him. (A fitting message in this Advent season.)

One of the things that he talked about specifically was that being creative brings us closer to God in putting us in his role as creator. I just thought that was really cool--not only because I had just bought a couple of creative activity sets for secret santa gifts, but also because I've always enjoyed such projects--be it crocheting, making cards, sketching, oragami, etc. I had always thought such activities were relaxing, but I didn't realize their religious/spritual potential.

Go in peace and craft!

Live Adventurously

Last Sunday, on the first Sunday of Advent, the priest during his homily charged us all to "live adventurously."

I wish I could remember more of what he said, but frankly, I can't. What does stand out for me that night was that I had three friends with me at church.

It hasn't yet quite been a year since I started attending Dignity masses here in DC, and most of that time I've gone alone (like it seems so many others do). Lately, however, LI has been going with me--in part to continue to strengthen her spiritual connections, but also to be there with me (which is just totally sweet that she wants us to be able to share "it"--god, church, spirituality, faith...).

We were joined by two more of her friends last Sunday, which made the start of Advent feel that much more of a celebration. Just like me, they knew about Dignity for quite some time, but just had not gotten around to attending mass. I don't know that they'll come back regularly (they usually attended MCC services regularly), but I was glad to be there and part of their journey in checking it out.

What was really fun was that the four of us then went out to dinner after mass. Unlike in my childhood when dad would take us through the drive-thru at McDonald's after mass as a sort of reward/consolation/motivation for having gone to mass, dinners out after church for me now have been about making the time and space to reflect on the mass, and the week in general.

This dinner was just that. :) It's been really cool, actually, to know so many others who are spiritual and attend services regularly as part of their faith. For so long I'd felt out of place in queer communities identifying as Catholic. Since going to Dignity regularly, I've become more and more outspoken about my religion and its significance to me [you regular blog readers might have noticed that ;)].

I think I re-connected with it just when I needed it. Fun how things work out like that...

Friday, December 01, 2006

World AIDS Day

Today is World AIDS Day, just wanted to spread the word.

My campus just finished celebrating World AIDS Week, but sadly I didn't find out about all the cool events that were held during the week until just yesterday. Despite the cool winter weather we're supposed to be getting this afternoon, I hope the AIDS Rally and March to the White House gets a good turnout.

(I'll be there in spirit, but in body I'll be attending a lecture by Jamison Green. Should be interesting...maybe more on it later.)

In the mean time, although I think that the maximum has already been reached, I wanted to pass along the word about Bristol Myers Squibb--they donate $1 for every person who goes to their website and lights a candle to fight AIDS, up to a maximum of $100,000. Go to www.lighttounite.org, to light a candle ... and help spread the light!